I am finding that being forced to deal with the death of her daddy has made Olivia have less of a fearful outlook on death. I realize that to an adult it would seem more logical to become more terrified of death after what happened. But I think it put life more into perspective for her. She seems to a conviction and answers to questions about life and death that I have not been able to give her. She is wise beyond her years when it comes to the loss of our loved ones. This doesn't mean that she isn't heartbroken. But she isn't as afraid now. Her terror seems to be waining. And for this, I am so utterly thankful. I want peace for my little ones.
Fourteen.
1 year ago
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"I want peace for my little ones."
...and for you too Jackie, for you too...XXxx
She's so beautiful = ) And she just looks all-knowing and tranquil in that picture.
Anna doesn't seem very fearful of death either. She just takes it in stride, as a normal part of life, it seems.
Then again, she asked me tonight why everyone's daddies died, after we had a brief conversation at bedtime about death. It's hard to be truthful with them without giving them a delusion that everyone's daddies die. But Anna's only 4, and she's just now starting to ask all these questions.
That last photo with Liv and the bird is just beautiful.
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