same day, same thing

I was directed to this blog. This man lost his wife on the same day from the same ailment as Jeff - pulmonary embolism. His blog is heart-breaking. He is now raising their daughter who was born the day before his wife died. I wish I had words of wisdom to give him or something that would help...But even going through this at the same time as him, I have nothing. I don't know which words would be appropriate. I don't know what would help his healing. All I can say is, "This fucking sucks, eh?" Kinda lame. But true.